Dating Coach for Men — Stop Settling and Start Attracting the Women You Truly Want
You can get dates—but not with the kind of women who truly excite you. You’re successful in most areas of life, but when it comes to dating, something’s off. As a dating coach for men based in Phoenix and working virtually with clients nationwide, I help ambitious professionals upgrade their dating game through confidence, clarity, and connection.
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Meet Jeff
Your Confidence and Dating Coach for Men
I’m Jeff Rothenberg — a former tech executive turned life and confidence coach helping men rebuild confidence, leadership, and connection after major life transitions.
After going through my own divorce and starting over in both life and love, I realized that most men don’t struggle with dating itself—they struggle with confidence, clarity, and authenticity.
I’ve spent 15+ years leading high-performing teams, hiring over 1,000 professionals, and studying human behavior through advanced training in Applied Positive Psychology at the University of Pennsylvania. Now, I use that experience to help men like you stop overthinking, build unshakable confidence, and attract the kind of women who match your energy and ambition.
Whether we’re meeting virtually from across the country or here in Arizona, you’ll have a trusted advisor—not a dating “guru”—guiding you with proven, evidence-based strategies that create real transformation.
Stop Settling for “Good Enough” Women
You can get dates. The problem is they’re not with the women who really excite you. You’re successful in business, confident in most areas of life, but when it comes to the women you actually want to be with—the intelligent, attractive, high-quality ones—something’s not clicking.
After my own divorce, I spent months dating women who were fine but not fascinating. The breakthrough came when I realized I was playing it safe instead of playing to win.
Are You Tired of Dating Like This?
✗ You Can Get Dates, But Not With the Right Women
You’re matching and meeting people, but they’re not the intelligent, attractive, ambitious women who truly interest you.
✗ Playing It Safe Instead of Playing to Win
You stick to “safe” conversations and predictable date ideas because you’re afraid of losing what little momentum you have.
✗ The Best Women Seem Out of Reach
When you do meet someone who excites you, you second-guess yourself or come across as just another nice guy she’s not that excited about.
✗ Settling for Less Than You Deserve
You’re successful in every other area of life, so why are you accepting mediocre when it comes to something as important as your romantic partner?
Why My Dating Coaching for Men Gets Real Results
I’ve been where you are.
Most dating advice is written by guys who either never struggled or forgot what it feels like to strike out. After my divorce, I spent my early 30s rebuilding everything from scratch.
The breakthrough wasn’t some secret technique. It was realizing that women can sense desperation from across the room. When I stopped performing and started being present as a confident man, everything changed.
What Makes This Different:
✓ I’ve rebuilt my dating life from scratch after divorce
✓ No “pickup artist” gimmicks — we focus on authentic masculine presence
✓ Professional, psychology-based approach — evidence-backed principles that work
✓ 15 years of experience coaching and leading professionals
✓ Based in Phoenix, available virtually to clients anywhere in the U.S.
The 4-Pillar
Method:
Your Framework for Dating Success
My approach to dating coaching is built on four essential pillars—Discover, Stabilize, Strategize, Execute. Skip one, and you stay stuck in the same patterns. Conquer all four, and you become genuinely attractive and confident with women.
➤ Discover
We'll uncover what's sabotaging your dating life and identify your authentic masculine strengths using professional assessment tools—so you stop guessing why it's not working and start building from your actual strengths.
→ You'll stop trying to be someone you're not and start attracting women as your genuine self.
➤ Stabilize
We'll assess your foundation (fitness, mental health, career, lifestyle) and fix what's undermining your confidence BEFORE you start approaching women—because you can't build genuine attractiveness from a place of insecurity.
→ You'll approach women from strength and confidence, not desperation or neediness.
➤ Strategize
We'll create your personalized action plan—where to meet women aligned with your values, how to start conversations naturally, and how to build attraction without being fake or manipulative.
→ No more guessing. You'll have a clear roadmap for meeting and attracting quality women.
➤ Execute
Together, we'll transform insights into real-world confidence through strategic practice that builds your comfort with women naturally—with weekly check-ins to maintain accountability and momentum.
→ In 3-6 months, you won't be "thinking about" dating. You'll be confidently meeting women and building real connections.
Free Resource: The Modern Man’s Dating Blueprint
Before you spend another weekend wondering why nothing’s working, get the foundation right.
What’s Inside:
✓ The Confidence Shift – Why trying to impress women actually repels them
✓ The Authenticity Advantage – How to leverage your real personality as your biggest asset
✓ The Connection Formula – My conversation framework that creates chemistry without feeling scripted
✓ The Abundance Mindset – How to stop putting individual women on pedestals
✓ Online vs. In-Real-Life Dating Strategies – Tools for approaching both dating funnels
Bonus Content:
✓ My “3 Questions That Never Fail” conversation starters
✓ The #1 dating app mistake (and the 2-minute fix)
✓ How authentic masculine leadership builds attraction
Why Choose Me as Your Dating Coach
This Work Is Personal
Having rebuilt my own life and dating confidence after divorce, I understand the unique challenges men face when starting over.
Professional Insight
With over 15 years in leadership and performance coaching, I bring both professional strategy and emotional intelligence to this process.
No Judgment, Just Results
We start where you are. My goal is to help you move forward with clarity, confidence, and ease—without pressure or pretense.
Available Virtually
I work with clients across the United States through secure, private virtual sessions. Whether you’re in Arizona, New York, or anywhere in between, coaching is fully accessible to you.
What We’ll Work On Together:
Mindset & Inner Game
Build genuine confidence that comes from knowing your worth as a man.
Masculinity & Leadership Principles
Develop authentic masculine energy and leadership qualities that naturally create attraction.
Conversation Skills
Learn to connect authentically without feeling like you’re performing.
Dating Strategy
Create a sustainable dating approach that attracts women aligned with your values and lifestyle.
Social Intelligence
Read situations, know when to advance or pull back, and create genuine chemistry.
Online & Real-World Dating Strategies
Master both dating apps and in-person approaches for meaningful results.
FAQs
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That’s exactly who this coaching is for. Confidence and attraction are skills—any man can learn them with the right guidance and consistent practice.
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Perfect! The e-book gives you the framework. Coaching applies it to your real life, helping you navigate specific challenges and build lasting results.
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Most clients notice a shift in confidence within 3–4 weeks. Real results—better conversations, higher-quality matches, more second dates—typically happen within 60–90 days.
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I focus on authenticity, self-respect, and connection—not manipulation. Real confidence attracts real relationships.
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Yes. All programs are available virtually, and I currently work with clients throughout the U.S.
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You can work with me from anywhere. I offer both virtual coaching nationwide and in-person sessions at my Biltmore office in the heart of Phoenix. My approach works seamlessly across time zones and professions, and I’ve coached clients from coast to coast.
Ready to Stop Going Home Alone?
You’re successful in every other area of your life. Dating shouldn’t be the exception.
⚠️ Limited Availability: Only 4 new dating clients accepted each month for personalized attention.